"The thing you need to know is that you don't have to irrigate your colostomy in order for it to work."
I'd like to discuss with you the number of people I have talked to lately who have been having a problem with irrigating. Their problem is that they just don't like to irrigate. They find the whole procedure disagreeable, time consuming and often unsuccessful. Despite irrigation they experience passage of stools one or more times a day.
Irrigating does not work for everyone. For one thing, your colostomy has to be in the descending or sigmoid colon. If your colostomy is in the ascending or transverse colon, the stool will be watery and you won't be able to regulate it.
People who had a very unpredictable bowel schedule before surgery may continue to do so after surgery despite efforts to achieve regulation with irrigations.
Some people have work schedules or lifestyles that do not permit them to irrigate at a consistent time each day. This too can cause irrigations to be unsuccessful.
The thing you need to know is that you don't have to irrigate your colostomy in order for it to work. Your bowel will work anyway, irrigation or not. The purpose of irrigating is to achieve regulation of the bowel so that no stool is passed between irrigations. The reason for regulating the bowel is for the ostomate's comfort and convenience. If irrigating is not accomplishing regulation (and if it is making you more uncomfortable) you should not be doing it.
Why were you told and taught to irrigate in the hospital? Some doctors use irrigations to stimulate the bowel after surgery. Some simply assume it is preferable for the ostomate. If your doctor told you to irrigate but you no longer want to, check to see if there is a medical reason for doing so. If there is not, the choice to irrigate or not to irrigate is up to you.
If you prefer to irrigate and are not having success, before you give up, seek professional advice from an E.T. You may have to modify your technique and here's where experienced E.T. knowledge can help you.
For your own knowledge, here are some general pointers to keep in mind for successful irrigation. It may help to review them right now.
But let me repeat again. If you are not having success with your irrigations seek professional help from an E.T.